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The Road Less Traveled
A New Psychology of Love, Traditional Values and Spiritual Growth
M. Scott Peck, M.D.
The Case of Theodore
- Ted was 30, and a hermit
- Lived in cabin in woods
- Terrible problem in decision-making: couldn't even make small decisions
- "Life seems to be an insurmountable problem"
- Global snobbishness: found the world and all that was in it to be in poor taste
- Senior year in high school, he is deacon in church
- Girlfriend rejects him
- He never goes to church again
- "I just became uninterested in religion"
- All of life seemed to him a maelstrom of death and suffering, danger and savagery
- During hurricane in Florida, he walked out on pier
- Wave washed him off, then washed him back on
- "I guess I feel I was fortunate"
- Whenever anything bad happened, he blamed God and got angry
- But whenever anything good happened, he attributed it to luck
- He began working on appreciating the good and beauty in life
- Accepting the necessity of suffering and embracing paradoxical nature of existence
- As a 10 yr old, family took away everything that he was enthusiastic about
- Suppressed his enthusiasm
- Eventually became a ministerDuring childhood, Ted punished for being enthusiastic, suppressed his enthusiasm. He came to see the world as a terrible place. Through therapy, he worked at becoming enthusiastic about the world again, and went on to become a minister.