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The Road Less Traveled
A New Psychology of Love, Traditional Values and Spiritual Growth
M. Scott Peck, M.D.
Openness to Challenge
- Continuous and never-ending stringent self-examination
- Required for a dedication to truth
- Many psychiatrists examine the world, but not themselves
- Life of wisdom must be a life of contemplation combined with action
- Process of constant self-examination and contemplation is essential for ultimate survival
- Willingness to be personally challenged
- Also required for dedication to truth
- Must expose our maps to criticism and challenge of other map-makers
- Tendency to avoid challenge is characteristic of human nature
- Self-discipline: teaching ourselves to do the unnatural
- Another characteristic of human is to do the unnatural
- Entering psychotherapy
- No act is more unnatural
- An act of the greatest courage
- Primary reason that people avoid psychotherapy is lack of courage
- Because people possess courage, new patients are basically much stronger and healthier than average
- Most people just looking for "relief", rather than a challenge
- Total honesty
- 3rd thing required for total dedication to the truth
- Continuous and never-ending process of self-monitoring
- Honesty does not come painlessly
- Lying is an attempt to circumvent legitimate suffering (a shortcut)
- We lie to ourselves as well as others
- Psychotherapy helps patients confront lies
- Genuine psychotherapy is a legitimate shortcut to personal growth
- Not a crutch, but a tool
- Can achieve personal growth without psychotherapy, but it can be tedious, lengthy,
and difficultA dedication to truth requires three things: 1) continuous and stringent self-examination; 2) a willingness to be personally challenged; and 3) total honesty. The search for truth is a lifelong process and requires effort, but genuine psychotherapy can be a legitimate shortcut to growth.